Be yourself, search for them and do what you want to do. ‘Them’ are the qualities deep inside you. The first step in searching for your qualities is doing what makes you happy. The things you do help you in discovering the inner you, for ex- if a person likes to draw, the person will draw and hence he or she will discover the interest or their area of interest, they will get to know about their quality and hence will secure their future in their interest. There are some people who know you better than you.
You need to dig deep inside to get you to know yourself. Your personality, character, and traits also say a lot about your qualities. Well, there is a test which can be conducted to get to know about yourself, so, take two opposite adjectives and ask yourself which one suits you the best and if you get stuck somewhere between the two adjectives with an = sign, then remember that you have a lot of time to do this test because a good and accurate answer describes a person better. The main five things that matter the most are:
Think about your life : If you are a kind of person who helps people in solving the problems of others and give priority to their problems then you are surely a selfless person, if you are a person who does things for the welfare of others and help yourself also then you are a helping person. In similar ways you can list out things that you do and then get your qualities listed out
List out your qualities : As I said above, list out things you do or love to do like ‘I am creative’ or ‘I am helpful’. The next step is to write them down and be proud of what qualities you have. If you know what you are good at, then its easier to improve from there.
Think and list your weaknesses : Now what you have to do is list out the things in contrast to your qualities. List out your weaknesses and have a look at them. Do you have low self-confidence? Are you scared of doing things new to you? No, don’t be, you can improve yourself by going against your limits and try new things. These things you do will motivate you!
Enjoy becoming a better person : If you have any spare time, join a sport or something which you are not good at. For ex – if u are not good at swimming then join swimming classes and make yourself better at it as we know practice makes perfect.
Remember that you are one and only : Don’t copy people, you are the only one. Don’t try to imitate others because you are who you are and only one.
So, if you adopt these five points then you will surely be able to make out your qualities and surely one day you will be able to succeed. All you have to do is believe in yourself and trust yourself. If you know how to make out your qualities then you surely can have a secure future from the start of the journey.